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 100 Interesting Things About Me
 

This was inspired by my blogstream profile, and it's too much fun not to share! They ask you to start a list of 100 things that are interesting about you, but not TOO personal that you wouldn't want to share it on the internet. Here is how my list starts (18% complete):
  1. I was born in the Philippines.
  2. I am an oldest child.
  3. I am of mixed race.
  4. Favorite treat: Dairy Queen Cappucino Heath Bar Blizzard
  5. Favorite toy: Tassimo coffee machine
  6. Favorite accessory: Versace sunglasses
  7. I was once crowned Miss North Central New York
  8. I was once married to a gay man.
  9. I have four cats and an aquarium of freshwater fish.
  10. I make a mean potato salad.
  11. Favorite cocktail: the Lemon Drop.
  12. Never met a piece of chocolate I didn't like.
  13. Once dated a Navy Seal.
  14. Once had a restrainging order against same Navy Seal.
  15. Once tried to be a waitress. I made a pretty poor waitress!
  16. Everyone in college called me, "Jenna." To this day I still don't know why.
  17. Only my mother calls me "Jenny," and I hate it.
  18. I'm an athiest.

How would your list go?

Update: And with that simple question an outpouring has begun. On Gather.com, a group was created to showcase the 100 Intersting Things About Me lists of members. Check it out at: onehundredthings.gather.com

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 The SMELL
 

So one day last week, I wrinkled up my nose in our kitchen and complained that it stunk more than usual. Now mind you, I have very sensitive nose (rivalled only by my friend, Misti's) and we also have four cats and a toddler. So there's bound to be something stinky around the house on a daily basis. But this one in particular was bothering me. In his quest to ever placate me, my darling husband starts hunting with his nose around the kitchen. We ruled out the ever-odiferous cat boxes, and were able to track down a pot of water that had been used to cook corn-on-the-cob the day before, which was still on the stove top. Tim disposed of that.
 
The next day, the smell was back stronger than ever. It was a kind of vinegary, sour smell, but really starting to bother me. So I'm home for lunch in the middle of the day, and now Tim really smells it, too. He begins hunting again, and stops at the toaster on the kitchen counter. But we look inside and behind, and there is nothing that should eminate such a stench. I pick up the bottle of very fine balsamic vinegar sitting next to the toaster, but it's tightly sealed and hasn't leaked or "gone over." So I immediately open the cabinets above and below it, but find nothing. The I go around the island to the set of cabinets on that side. Lo and behold, when I open a lower cabinet, the smell is much stronger.
 
So not being completely foolish, I tell my husband that I think it's coming from "in there." And I back away... He starts pulling out everything from that cabinet: the plastic picnic dishes and cups, disposable plates and utensils, my thermos - and WHAM!
 
The thermos begins leaking a clear fluid right onto Tim's clothes, and the SMELL! My gag reflex kicks in as I shout to Tim through my hand clenched over my nose and mouth to go change his clothes immediately. He obediently carries the thermos outside and leaves it there while he goes to change. I stand there trying to think about what on earth would cause a thermos to reek like that, and then it hits me...
 
A couple of months ago, we moved. And during the move, I had filled the thermos with milk for Alex so that he would have it regardless of where the groceries ended up at his next meal time. Well, we must have forgotten about it. And I had a bunch of really great and efficient helpers with me that day, one of whom must have assumed the thermos was empty and stashed it in the cabinet. That was two months ago!
 
I was so sick that I couldn't eat my lunch and just went back to the office hungry. Poor Tim and Alex had to endure by throwing open all of the windows and hiding in the upper level until the stink became more manageable. Needless to say we went out to dinner that night...
 
...and we threw away the thermos!
 
(This is a re-post of my article on Gather.com. For the original article and its associated comments, plus the rest of my collection, please find me at: www.jsblaney.gather.com)
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 Review of eBay Town Hall Meeting, 1/26/06: Part II
 

(Part II of my review of the eBay Town Hall Meeting on 1/26/06)

Items of Special Interest:

eBay Express

Launching in spring of 2006, eBay Express will be a new format especially for shoppers/buyers. Items will be at a fixed price, and the goal is to encourage more shopping by current members, as well as attracting new shoppers. Shoppers will be able to use a "shopping cart" to make purchases from multiple sellers, and pay all at once by Pay Pal or credit card only. Shoppers will not need to become an eBay member to shop this way. My impression is that eBay has come to understand how attractive it has become to sellers, and wants to turn its attention towards becoming just as attractive towards buyers. Some questions raised by this topic should be considered whatever your business:

  • How can we make it easier for our customers to transact/buy/sell/trade?
  • How can we make it easier for our customers to pay cash, without necessarily employing high cost options like PayPal or bank services that charge exorbitant fees?
  • How can my business "Expand the Marketplace," a term used by eBay president Bill Cobb?

Anything Points Program

Although I submitted a question about the Anything Points Program, it was never addressed during this call. The website simply announces the closing of this program, citing the only reason as feedback received from members in the United States. The program will continue to run in Canada and the other countries currently using it. This raises some questions for which it will be difficult to find answers:

  • What specifically caused the program to fail? If a giant like EBay cannot successfully run such a program, what chance do other companies considering a similar program face?
  • Gather.com is currently creating its reward point system, which has attracted both criticism and optimism. What will Gather do to make sure it succeeds where others have failed? Is this something my business can also institute successfully, or can we partner with a company like Gather?
  • Can our customers or members benefit from a Town Hall forum?
  • Bill Cobb says, "If you are not selling to other countries, you can bet your competitor is!" Is expanding globally on our agenda for the future? How would that benefit our current clients?
  • eBay will be hosting an "eBay Live" convention at Mandalay Bay in Las Vegas this year. Would our company's customer base benefit from a National Fair, or similar convention? This could be in conjunction with our own convention and offer an opportunity for clients to attend educational seminars.

For anyone who was not able to tune in to the eBay Town Hall meeting, I hope I have offered you some important information you can use in your business, which you would otherwise have missed. Archives of this and other Town Hall meetings can be found at:

http://pages.ebay.com/townhall/archives.html

The next eBay Town Hall meeting is scheduled for Tuesday, February 28, 2006, from 3 to 4 PM, Pacific Time. Please feel free to send me any questions you may have, especially on how you might apply any of these items to your own situation. Together we can stand on the shoulders of giants, and use their perspective on the world to earn our place among them.

-Jennifer Blaney has spent the past decade managing small businesses, from privately owned, to franchised, to corporate owned operations. She has held every role from housecleaner to telemarketer to Vice President of Operations. She holds a BS degree in Business Administration. Jennifer has a passion for small businesses, and a special place in her heart for business owners and entrepreneurs. She is currently the GM of a publicly traded franchise that serves over 22,000 member businesses.

(This is a re-post of my article on Gather.com. For the original article and its associated comments, plus the rest of my collection, please find me at: www.jsblaney.gather.com)
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 Review of eBay Town Hall Meeting, 1/26/06: Part I
 

By request, I logged in for the last eBay Town Hall meeting to see if I could glean some pearls from the very popular and successful Internet giant. After all, why reinvent the wheel when we may be able to find pieces to apply to business in general?

Summary:

eBay held an open Town Hall Meeting on its website, accessible to all eBay members and staff. Members logged in using their member ID and password and were invited to submit questions of any general nature online, either in advance or live during the meeting. The meeting was hosted by Bill Cobb, President of eBay North America, who was joined by various executives and staff members. A panel of 10 members was invited to corporate headquarters to provide feedback, but also asked questions live during the meeting. Mr. Cobb provided a brief summary of "What's New" at eBay, which included mention of the new format eBay Express, to be launched in spring of 2006.

Issues raised by eBay members:

Regarding limits placed on the number of times members can contact other members via email: eBay is not limiting the number of times contact can be made regarding specific transactions, just general contact.

This is an issue for many companies with large member bases that must interact, especially in business to business transactions. One way to minimize problems in this area is to assign a representative, broker, or trade director to each member. This makes that corporate representative or franchisee the single point of contact for a group of members. In a large member base, those who act as brokers can control the flow of information and direct traffic to where it will be most usable. More of the communication can be between brokers, or between brokers and members, which also controls the quality of the communications. Corporate can maintain a consistent message, thus improving branding and goodwill. It also becomes much more difficult for "phishers" or other scam artists to do their evils when company representatives act as gatekeepers.

Regarding how to eliminate excessive fees members charge each other, especially shipping & handling: eBay tries to set policies, procedures, and "rules for the marketplace" that discourages any undesirable behaviors such as this. They will continue to look at this issue, as well as changes/additions to policies and procedures that will encourage desirable behaviors/habits.

In situations where salespeople, brokers, independent licensees, or franchise owners are the direct contact with members, it becomes critical for corporate entities or franchisors to police what clients are being charged. The methods of "skimming" usually do include overcharging clients, not to mention failure to record some transactions all together and pocketing the cash. In a franchise situation, this can also mean under-reporting revenue in order to avoid or reduce royalties. Each company needs to have the proper internal controls to prevent and detect such activity. Some solutions can include software that makes misreporting difficult, especially if they are linked to inventory levels, if appropriate. If transactions between customers are part of the business, setting "rules for the marketplace" can keep price gouging or inflation in check. Whatever the business model or industry, be sure that the rules, policies, and procedures that are put into place encourage the behaviors desired in both employees and client, and discourage the behaviors that are undesirable.

Regarding fee increases, which always cause a rash of complaints by members: eBay sets their fees and updates them to discourage the "bad guys" from joining. They want only serious buyers and sellers as part of the marketplace, so they set fee levels that they feel are "Best for the Marketplace." They also try to show how they are always "Investing in the Marketplace" and not just lining corporate pockets, which is a common perception among members. They will also try to keep their fees competitive at the same time.

Fee increases are a part of doing business, and complaining about fees seems to be a part of being a consumer. It is human nature to not want to pay more for something you pay on a regular basis. However, companies need to base their fee structures not just on customer wants, but on the value of the product or service to the customer. Some consideration of cost of goods and fixed costs needs to me made, but fair market value is based on the perceived value placed on the product in the current marketplace conditions. Businesses can inject some influence over the perceived value by educating customer on the benefits of using their product or service over the competition. This is a primary role of marketing, and should also be a part of every opportunity to communicate with each customer. Charging too little leaves money on the table, which is a common cause for business failure. It also can encourage an increase in customers who do not fit your target demographic. After all, if a client cannot afford you, do you really want them as a client? Constantly evaluating and updating prices can be nerve-wracking for the business owner or manager, but is an important part of doing business.

Regarding their feedback rating system: should eBay allow members to view at a glance all of the negative feedback of other members? Although eBay always suggests looking at a member's feedback, good and bad, if you are considering transacting with someone, it is a "Buyer Beware" world out there. They are also reluctant to make negative feedback so visible because sometimes one silly mistake in the past can look very bad and discourage others from transacting with someone with an otherwise good record.

Although this is a very valid reason for keeping complaints less visible, there are ways to make such information available without making it the center or attention. In the case of eBay, all feedback, good and bad, about a member are just a few mouse clicks away. Other companies have instituted variations of a "black list" to keep undesirables out of the marketplace. This should be used with caution, as the information needs to be highly accurate, and available only on a need-to-know basis. Law suits can arise if incorrect and defamatory information is made public. A similar situation exists any time someone is completely banned from transacting with a company or its client base. Care should be taken to avoid creating situations where someone has his/her livelihood taken away.

Regarding Live Channels of Support vs. Email Only Support: eBay is preparing to include some of their most active members on their customer support team. Although the primary demographic for eBay is very comfortable performing all buying and selling functions via email and website interface, there will always remain a demand for live customer service via telephone or in person. Doing business in this day and age should always include some basic customer service options:

1. A website that offers general information about the product or service. The more detailed the information, including pricing, the more customers will feel comfortable spending money with you. A comprehensive FAQ section should always be kept up to date with the answers to questions most commonly asked by customers. Be sure to include all of the avenues available to clients to contact the business, the hours of operation, and if appropriate, a map and directions to the location.

2. An email address where non-urgent inquiries can be sent, day or night. Be sure that someone is dedicated to responding to such inquiries within 24 hours.

3. Have established hours when a live person will answer the telephone. Voice mail and other automated systems work well for the hours when the business is closed, but caution is urged before deciding not to staff the telephone with a live human during normal hours of operation. Many a potential client has been lost when they call during the business day and a machine answers. Many of these customers will hang up and continue calling other companies until a live person answers, and most of the time, that company who answers the telephone will win the client. If a potential client does leave a message, be sure that the client receives a response within 24 hours, though the sooner, the better. Businesses will have to gauge their customers' needs to determine their own mix of customer support options. What may be surprising to some is that I am not including a recommendation for having a storefront, office, or other means for customers to see you in person. Although the "brick and mortar" operations is the traditional necessity for a business, the Internet and our reliance on it has freed many business models from this one huge overhead cost. Of course, many businesses will absolutely need to offer a way for clients to come to you, especially in a retail operation, there are also many ways to run a business that does not require ever seeing the client. Also growing in popularity is the option for the business, or at least a representative, to go to the customer. This has been in part because of the growing home-based offices and operations, and in part to the number of business owners who are way too busy to leave their own business.

Regarding a request to avoid making any changes to the website during the very busy 4th Quarter: eBay is now taking seriously feedback they have received that such changes are especially problematic when transaction levels are at their highest, and will take this into consideration when scheduling maintenance and upgrades on the system.

In any business model where telephone or Internet transactions play an important role, it seems obvious that maintenance on such systems should only take place during off-peak times. However, it is just as important to consider that peak and off-peak times can include certain days of the week, or times of the year. As eBay is hearing from members, the busy Christmas season is the worst time for most businesses to lose access to their technology. Also consider posting scheduled maintenance on your website, and if any changes or upgrades will be made, be sure to specify what will change. As is often the case when dealing with money: Nobody likes surprises!

Regarding what safeguards are in place to protect members from "phishing" emails: eBay wants to make it clear that any email that asks for personal or credit card information is NOT from them! Bill Cobb mentioned that there is a little known "phisher" list of companies that run these scams, which is shared among the legitimate businesses in the industry.

If it is so obvious that you should never provide your personal information or passwords to someone who asks via email, why are there so many scam artists out there? Because it is worth their time and effort to keep trying! Don't fall victim or allow your clients to. Make sure your business has policies in place to never request client information via email, and educate your clients to know this. Also have other safeguards in place to protect your customer information, including encryption and firewalls. Consider sharing information on known scammers with others in your industry – knowledge is power and customers who have an extremely bad experience with your competitors in an area that you have in common may decide to steer clear of your industry all together! Think of the barter and trade exchange industry. You either know about it and love it, or know little to nothing and fear it. This is one industry with limitless potential to offer members and businesses options for buying and selling without using cash, and yet past problems with scams and some bad apples in the industry have hampered growth over the years. Reputable companies are now emerging from the field and have been winning back both respect and clients.

Regarding the probability of more "Discount Days" in the future: eBay does like to offer discounts on their transaction fees during times when the market is traditionally slow, and will continue to offer these on an occasional basis.

For some business models, offering coupons and discounts seems an obvious way to fill in slow sales periods. I urge great caution, however, in using discounts as a part of daily business year round. Too much money is left on the table every day by companies that don't charge what their product or service is worth, as mentioned above. An important consideration should be made for what kind of client base is wanted and needed. Do you really want to base your business on a client base that is always looking for the lowest bidder? If so, you will find a high customer turnover rate plagues you, as this base is not know for its loyalty. Or would you rather educate the buying public to know that your product is the premium in quality, and therefore price? Perhaps fewer clients who are much more loyal and spend much more per transaction is the more stable way to grow your business. Some clients are turned off all together at offers of discounts or coupons.

-Jennifer Blaney has spent the past decade managing small businesses, from privately owned, to franchised, to corporate owned operations. She has held every role from housecleaner to telemarketer to Vice President of Operations. She holds a BS degree in Business Administration. Jennifer has a passion for small businesses, and a special place in her heart for business owners and entrepreneurs. She is currently the GM of a publicly traded franchise that serves over 22,000 member businesses.

(This is a re-post of my article on Gather.com. For the original article and its associated comments, plus the rest of my collection, please find me at: www.jsblaney.gather.com)

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 So I Married a Gay Man
 

The old whore who used to sit on our stoop – she knew my husband was gay before I did. One morning on his way out to work, she was out there smoking a cigarette. When she heard someone coming she stood and began to proposition him. "Hey buddy, do you want to… never mind. You're gay." And she plopped back down on her wide bottom, puffing away on her smoke in obvious disappointment, never paying him another glance.
 
Haven't you ever made a mistake? So it took me about five years to figure it out. It took him longer. Yes, in retrospect there were clues along the way. He was prettier than I. He took longer to do his hair. He did enjoy dressing up as a woman for Halloween a bit too much, and continued to wear the panty hose a bit too long after the holiday was over. He did do a better job at picking out my shoes than I.
 
Please don't think I'm bitter. It's really hard to be when that divorce was one of the best things that ever happened to me. It wasn't a bad marriage, even. He is a very nice man, and he tried very hard to love me and give me whatever I needed. He never verbally or physically abused me, unless utter boredom can be considered abuse. For the longest time we both blamed me. I could be cold at times. Okay, more often than not. But it was he who turned away. He was the one who stopped touching me. He was the one who started hanging out on the internet, looking at pornography so graphic it made even my jaded eyes want to look away. And I did. Look away I mean.
 
In fact, by our second wedding anniversary I knew it was over. Here we were, sitting at a window table in the revolving Space Needle restaurant. The waiter kept referring to me as, "the lady," which I ate up with a spoon. And my poor oblivious first-husband sat across from me, gazing at me lovingly with his puppy-dog eyes, making toasts to our eternal love. When he toasted our two years of marriage and hopes for, "many more to come," I fought hard not to gag. Seriously, I think that a little bit of vomit came up into my mouth. That's when I knew for sure it was over, though it took a couple more years to admit. Two years too many.
 
By then we were barely speaking. Really sad since we worked together, too. I was pretty convinced that he was sleeping with a fellow student from the UW. Although she was a woman, she was a very manly woman. I know I was his first, but I'm pretty sure she was his last. Woman, that is. I wish I could say I was angry, but by then I didn't even care. Heck, I even liked her a little. So I let it happen. In the end it was a good excuse. Funny though, how it was he who brought up the idea.
 
He marched into the living room one day, where I was laying on the couch reading a book, with a warm blanket wrapped around me. It was almost May, but it had been very chilly at home lately. He actually seemed to have grown a bit of a backbone at the time, as he marched up to the couch and planted himself there. He looked me straight in the eye and stated, "So what, do you want a divorce." No, it wasn't a question. He stated it, already knowing the answer.
 
Still, when I looked right up at his six-foot frame attempting to tower over my prone five-foot-two inches, and said, "Yes," he seemed to crumple. Not just that he folded up to kneel on the floor at my side, but his shoulders hunched, his head hung down, and in his eyes I could see complete disbelief and defeat. That shocked me a little, that he seemed surprised that I would take him up on his offer. I found that confusing and it made me a little angry at him. That was the first time he had made me feel anything at all, in a long, long time.
 
His surprise quickly turned to anger, and in his anger he grew productive. He started looking for a new place to live. He went to the campus legal department at the UW to get the ball rolling. He started to look for a new job, since we both knew working together was going to be as impossible as living together. I don't think I was prepared for how quickly he moved out. I was not surprised at the mess he left behind, or that he did it on his day off, while I was at work. But I was surprised that he left his cat behind, but took the ice cube trays. Who takes the ice cube trays?
 
Later I would find that he also took the bread machine – a small loss. But the stapler really ticked me off. Who takes the only stapler? It was my stapler! I immediately went out to buy another stapler, though it would be days before I would find myself in need of stapling anything. Still the satisfaction was there. See, I can staple without you. I can live without you, too.
 
I still have his cat. She has been with me longer than any of my relationships, and has been more loyal than any friend. She's old and incontinent now, but I enjoy her company. I am since remarried and have a beautiful son. I also went back to school and finished my degree. It was a small retaliation for the years I spent putting husband #1 through school while I worked myself to death. I don't know where husband #1 is today. It was one of those blessed peaceful divorces; where we each sign paperwork and each quietly slink away into the Pacific Northwest rain. But sometimes I wonder about husband #1, and hope he has figured it out. I hope he can be as okay with being gay as I am about his being gay. Besides, I love the looks on people's faces when I start stories with, "Did I ever tell you I was once married to a gay man?"
 
(This is a re-post of my article on Gather.com. For the original article and its associated comments, plus the rest of my collection, please find me at: www.jsblaney.gather.com)
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